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Maggie Smith's avatar

Hi I’ve been single for over 30 years now. In the past I assumed that I would meet someone but as the years went by this didn’t happen . I have not wanted to compromise just to be with someone as many of the relationships I see around me would not be for me. I do however envy those people who seem to have partnerships founded on respect, care and a level of independence from each other.

I am mostly content and happy with my life- I love the fact that on a daily basis I can do whatever I want ! I don’t need to discuss plans with anyone and can simply please myself ! I am a first time dog owner and she is a great companion.

I have followed the single supplement almost since the start and have found it truly inspiring, empowering and reassuring . Thank you Nicola and all this community . I was so pleased to hear that you had decided to have a baby and wish the 3 of you well on your journey.

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Mary Pot's avatar

Hello :)

Been separated from my husband for over 5 years and been single since through choice. Before the marriage I was largely single all through adulthood through choice too but I got to my 30s and really wanted to be a parent and so did my husband. Once kids all grown up a bit and at school we separated.

I live with my three children who are all high school age and above now. It’s like being in a college dorm at the geekiest university in the world and I love it.

I’ve watched many friends separate and pair off again with other people so quickly.

Tired of them and others asking me in a condescending voice if I’ve met anyone else yet and saying the right person will come along. Truth is I don’t need or want the added complications of another person here just because it is socially expected. I’m really happy with this set up at present. Maybe one day when kids all left home I’ll want to have company but can’t see it right now. I didn’t before so not sure why I would again? Anyway. Long post. Good to be here.

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