Living in the grey

I've been thinking a lot about what the difference was between when I was feeling really low about being single and when I was really positive about being single. The reason I've been thinking about this is because of some of the conversations I have seen on the Facebook group that is attached to this newsletter. Quite a few people have expressed how low they've been feeling about being single and maybe it's just because we're still in the middle of all this pandemic. It’s obviously quite hard to be single right now because we can’t do all the things we normally would which makes our lives great. Others on the group are loving their single status and totally embracing it even during the pandemic. Obviously everyone is different but it got me thinking about what shifted for me.

I was struggling with being single a few years ago to the point where I actually felt bitter about my friends in relationships and even strangers I saw snogging in the street. I was really emotional and just fel…